Hi everyone hope you are all well I have not been well for some time and I think it all has to do with my situation at present.My son has fallen out with me and has had another son 8 weeks ago that I have never seen.He also has another son that I was involved in for three years and that also has been taken away from me.On the other hand his son from an early relationship is now coming up to fourteen and has spent the last three days here with me and his grandpaps we love him to bits and he is very comfortable here and comes almost every weekend.He is always welcome.The thing is that my heart is hurting so much for my son I miss him so much and cannot understand .I know he has to stand by his partner but at what stage should he have made a stand and entiled his children to still have contact with us.I fought tooth and mouth with my son for contact with our eldest grandchild and he knows how hard it was.Now he is doing exactly the same to me its so sad because I know its hurting him as much as me not being in contact with each other we have always been very close.

Hi Mags,

So sorry to hear of your problems , I hope there is some way you can resolve things soon.

Love, Doreen xx

Hi lovely Mags

I am not surprised you are feeling terrible. I just hope and pray that things can be settled as soon as possible

Much love to you

Jeanxxxxxxx

Thank you all for your messages still no further progress with the matter but just feel that someone is kicking me at the moment my husband last week has broke a bone in his foot and I have found it very hard to cope with .I have had no help from anyone and found it hard to do all the fetching and carrying.Shopping which I leave in the garage for hubby to bring up still wats and looking after him (Drinks /meals paper/tablets/shall I go on.We all know how much weaker men are with coping when not well but I just feel at the mo no one is looking after me.I feel very alone at the moment.Take all x